Love Isn't...

Calvary Burlington  |  Blog Post - Love Isn't

A few months ago, Pastor Aaron got us to do a little exercise before his message. He asked us to draw an X-axis and a Y-axis on a sheet of paper, and "plot out" our journey with God over the last year - all the highs and lows. So, I sat there with my little sheet of paper thinking about the past few months and marking down a visual representation of my walk with God.

Some dots were low on my chart - times if difficulty and uncertainty. Some were way up there - times of blessing and seeing prayers answered.

And as I took a moment to look over my work - the mountain tops and valleys my "God walk" chart showed - I realized this chart had everything to do with me, and very little to do with God.

What I mean is, this jagged line was my experience of nearness to God, but if I drew a chart of God's closeness to me during this time, we'd be look at a straight line right across the top. No dips, no valleys, just a steady love and constant nearness.

We're just coming out of Valentine’s Day, and every year when it rolls around I'm challenged in my understanding of what love is, and what love looks like.

Really, what does love look like?

We know that love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

Love never ends.

Often, though, I equate God's love with this broken thing that I try to muster up. Which is why I need to be reminded of these words that talk about what God's love is, and what it isn't:

Your love's not fractured, it's not a troubled mind 
It isn't anxious 
It's not the restless kind
Your love's not passive 
It's never disengaged 
It's always present 
It hangs on every word we say 
Love keeps its promises 
It keeps its word 
It honours what's sacred 
Cause its vows are good 
Your love's not broken 
It's not insecure 
Your love's not selfish 
Your love is pure*

I have to keep reminding myself of who God is apart from my experience, because my experience so often clouds the truth. God is patient, He is kind...

So wherever you are in your walk with God –– whether your strolling side by side or just struggling to hold on ––

Know that He is near, and His love is constant.

Jolene Sanders, Worship Director

For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him
should not perish but have eternal life. (John 3:16)

*Pieces, by Amanda Cook

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